Okay. So my brother a few months ago came out to my parents. Well now its my turn. What is the best way that I can come out. My parents are okay with my brother being gay. But they have there probs. with it. My mom sometimes cries because he is gay. Which I think is stupid! lol! But I am tired of hiding it! All my friends know, and are cool, no one cared really. The only people left to tell are my parents.
So how can I tell them, in the best way??
Thanks!

Your brother is also gay? Wow just ask him lol.
If your parents already got the gay notice from one of their kids then I don't really think it'll be that big of a deal getting it from the other one.

well thats true. But I mean I dont think they are ready to hear it! you know! It has to be hard on them..lol
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Aim Dramafreak1108 love to talk!

I bet, most straight parents are idiots and think it's their fault their kid turns out gay. If your parents are like that then they're gonna be angry with themselves for supposedly making bad parenting choices.

okay! Wow! YES that is my parents! My parents blame themselves because my brother is gay all the time! I just want to scream "look me and him are GAY! So obviously you guys did not do anything wrong!"

There is not a right way of telling anyone, you just have to do it. I don't know how they will react to you being gay though, are you two the only sons? They might take it a little harder if both sons are gay though, but you really won't know until you actually tell them.

I guess so! lol! I do have a little sister she is 4. (yes my parents spread them out) I think my mom has an idea. I just need to confirm it

Two gay sons.

Your dad must be thrilled with this.

Haha. Well I mean he does not really know yet. Only about my older brother. lol! But he is not happy about him. My dad has never been close with me or my brother.

He's gonna an hero.

It's going to be hard for them having 2 gay sons but they have no choice but to deal. There's nothing you can do about it. Talk it out with your bro .

I guess. Thats the easy way to look at it. For them all they see is they did something wrong.
I do talk to my brother about it, he is cool. But he just tells me that now is not the time to tell my parents, first they have to get over him...

If you live in England (not sure if it works else where) then listen to this. Was faily helpful for me.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/b0 ... t_Special/

im glad i wasn't the only one who lauhed at this.

Glad my life is so funny for some of you guys.

Two gay siblings is quite a rarity, and it could help in the scientific effort to understand human sexuality. Please get in contact with a geneticist or other scientist studying human sexuality.

No......she's obviously not okay with it.


Just come out. Tell them you have something important to say and just say it. They've already gone through it before.

its so hard to do though! I know I just need to do it!

If straight forward coming out to them is too hard then talk to your brother. Maybe he can help you, it's always easier when you have someone there for support.

They gave up on him and now all the pressure to start a family and produce grandchildren is on your shoulders. If your mom cries because your brother is gay, then surely she will sob with agony after she finds out that you are, too.

Again I agree with Blanc, coming out will break her heart whether you do it now or later, she's going to be upset...but you need to give her time, I know it's hard to not come out, but sometimes its for the best

She should understand that gay couples can have families too.

Thank you guys! You are really helpful!

You got lucky, You got a brother you can talk to

"You know how 'brother' is gay? Bitch didn't give either of us enough testosterone in the womb. Nice job.