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cookie monster
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Post subject: Re: Are you guys..  Posted: 28th August, 2009, 2:37 pm |
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Yes, hugely. So bad in fact it ruined most relationships I have ever had.
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Post subject: Re: Are you guys.. Posted: 28th August, 2009, 2:50 pm |
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I would be. Either paranoid or blissful.
I can be extremely cautious to begin with but if something seems good I'll think everything is perfect. This way of 'all or nothing' thinking is bad. Focus on what's actually going on instead of what you think might be going on.
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Luap Wah
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Post subject: Re: Are you guys.. Posted: 28th August, 2009, 5:07 pm |
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I'm paranoid about everything lol
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Post subject: Re: Are you guys.. Posted: 28th August, 2009, 5:10 pm |
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LaFleur wrote: I would be. Either paranoid or blissful.
I can be extremely cautious to begin with but if something seems good I'll think everything is perfect. This way of 'all or nothing' thinking is bad. Focus on what's actually going on instead of what you think might be going on. I'm kind of that way, but with emotions instead of paranoia. I show pretty much no emotions towards guys at all for a while, but then, when I am finally comfortable enough to let my emotions out, they come out in huge amounts that I don't seem to be able to control. :S
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Luap Wah
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Post subject: Re: Are you guys.. Posted: 28th August, 2009, 6:22 pm |
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Brandon wrote: .. really paranoid? Like, relationship-wise. I'm dealing with this guy and we're not even dating, but I already expect him to break up with me. Am I just being a pessimist?
It's making me really mad, and I hope I'm not always gonna be like this. Anyone else have this problem? :/ To be honest I was like this with my Ex when we started going out with each other paranoid we where gonna break up.It's awful because you just went to relish in the joy a relationship is meant to give but having initial doubts is that a sign a partner is not right for you?
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Jimmy
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Post subject: Re: Are you guys.. Posted: 29th August, 2009, 12:57 pm |
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I'm paranoid I'll never find the right guy or that they wont love me as much as I love them OR I wont love them as much as he loves me. 
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Post subject: Re: Are you guys.. Posted: 29th August, 2009, 6:53 pm |
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If you're paranoid then you shoulda put a ring on it. Or a GPS in his car, that works too.
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John
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Post subject: Re: Are you guys.. Posted: 29th August, 2009, 7:42 pm |
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Most guys ruin most of their relationships.
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Reisy
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Post subject: Re: Are you guys.. Posted: 30th August, 2009, 1:10 am |
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Keep it up, if everyone was destined to find a spouse, then there would be no single men left in the world. That's where you come in. Might I suggest becoming a crazy cat person? 
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Post subject: Re: Are you guys.. Posted: 30th August, 2009, 1:21 am |
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Sayreis wrote: Keep it up, if everyone was destined to find a spouse, then there would be no single men left in the world. That's where you come in. Might I suggest becoming a crazy cat person? What a shit Photoshop job.
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Post subject: Re: Are you guys.. Posted: 30th August, 2009, 1:53 am |
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Especially with the random cats mouth floating around down there...but yes im paranoid. I always thought I wasn't good enough for my fuck buddy and it eventually ruined everything.
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Post subject: Re: Are you guys.. Posted: 30th August, 2009, 4:03 am |
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poolerboy0077 wrote: Sayreis wrote: Keep it up, if everyone was destined to find a spouse, then there would be no single men left in the world. That's where you come in. Might I suggest becoming a crazy cat person? What a shit Photoshop job. Indeed, I can see 5 different cats
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Post subject: Re: Are you guys.. Posted: 30th August, 2009, 7:45 am |
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cookie monster wrote: Yes, hugely. So bad in fact it ruined most relationships I have ever had. Ugh, that sounds just like me. Thankfully I have my muse (and anti-depressants) telling me I'm not allowed to do that anymore.
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Post subject: Re: Are you guys.. Posted: 12th September, 2009, 9:55 pm |
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Brandon wrote: .. really paranoid? Like, relationship-wise. I'm dealing with this guy and we're not even dating, but I already expect him to break up with me. Am I just being a pessimist?
It's making me really mad, and I hope I'm not always gonna be like this. Anyone else have this problem? :/  ur not dating, but ur paranoid that he will break up with you?
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